What is manifestation really?!

Manifestation is all about energy. It's the process of attracting people, experiences, and desires into your life by embodying a specific kind of energy. Have you ever wondered why certain friend groups share the same vibe or why people with similar energies are naturally drawn to each other? The same principles apply to dating and relationships. Your mindset and beliefs shape the kind of partners you find yourself dating.

The elephant in the room: negative beliefs

If you find yourself repeatedly stuck in toxic relationship patterns, it might be time to examine the energy you're putting out. Negative experiences tend to reinforce the belief that dating isn't going to work for you. But here's the silver lining: you can shift this mindset. By consciously choosing to believe in the possibility of a fulfilling relationship, you open doors to new dating experiences.

My manifestation testimony

A few years ago, I stumbled into the world of manifestation and found it to be a transformative experience. I began by writing down the qualities I desired in a partner and, ultimately, attracted someone who exceeded my expectations. Through conscious manifestation, I discovered the power of being an energetic match with the kind of person I wanted in my life. 

Concrete steps to level up your energy

If you're attracting the wrong kinds of relationships, consider these steps to elevate your energy:

1. Take Action: Exploring new social avenues—like dating apps and social groups—puts you in spaces where you'll meet more aligned prospects.

2. Review Relationships: Spend time with those who uplift you and set boundaries with energy vampires who drain you. 

3. Set Goals with Timelines: Promise yourself a commitment to dating or relationship goals by a specific date. This sets a higher level of accountability.

4. Social Media Detox: Unfollow accounts that don't serve your growth to reclaim your energy and focus. Only follow accounts that genuinely add value to your life and boost your spirits so that every time you open social media apps you feel recharged and inspired.

Take spiritual action

Combine the physical action steps above with the spiritual by:

- Scripting: Write vivid details about your future relationship as if it's happening now. 

- Meditation: Use meditation to find peace and align your vibration with your desires.

- Create a Mood Board: Capture the essence of what you want to manifest using visual representations.

- Radical Gratitude: Embrace every step in your journey, even when it feels like a setback, as a lesson paving the way forward.

Ditch the desperation

Desperation can lead to poor choices. Instead, cultivate a healthier boundary between what's desired and valued. By acknowledging your desires and adopting beliefs aligned with your goals, you move from desperation to empowerment.

Big Pink Question

Every episode ends with a Big Pink Question, a powerful reflection prompt to help you practically apply sentiments from today’s episode directly into your dating and relationship life in a transformative way. This episode's Big Pink Question is:

What thoughts and feelings come up for you when you think about where you are on your dating and relationship journey?

Do you feel frustrated, stressed, overwhelmed, overlooked, content, at peace, excited, etc.? By assessing your current thoughts and feelings regarding your dating and relationship journey, you can determine what kind of energy you are emitting in this area of your life. If thinking about dating makes you upset, defensive, or agitated, you may be experiencing dating situations that align with this energy level. 

Affirmations

Affirmations are powerful tools you can use to transform your dating and relationship life, whether you're single and mingling or already in a committed relationship.

Affirmations are positive statements that you repeat to yourself to foster a mindset of positivity and self-empowerment by rewiring your brain to focus on a belief in your ability to accomplish your goals and outcomes.

These mental shifts reshape your internal dialogue, motivate you to take action, boost your emotional well-being, and offer you the strength to pursue goals despite challenges.

Follow @pinkpositivedatingon Instagram for daily affirmations to transform your love life. These affirmations can you help build confidence in your ability to find a suitable romantic partner, build a strong positive mindset to succeed at modern dating, and help you attract and strengthen romantic relationships.

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Timestamps

Want to hear more about the points highlighted in the blog? Use the podcast timestamps to easily navigate to something you want to hear more about in the show!

00:00 What is manifestation?!

01:11 Manifestation and love

03:44 My testimony on manifesting love

07:02 How to raise your vibration

12:10 Taking spiritual action

16:29 Ditching desperation for desire

18:30 Big Pink Question

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